Good Morning Friends,
Paul told the Ephesians that when a person
comes to Christ a radical change comes over their life. They “put off your old
self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires” (Ephesians 4:22) and
“put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and
holiness” (Ephesians 4:24).
Then he goes on to help us understand what the
difference will look like in our lives.
“Put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his
neighbor … ‘In your anger do not sin’. Do not let the sun go down while you are
still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. He who has been stealing
must steal no longer. ... Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your
mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their
needs. ... Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander,
along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another,
forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 5:25-32)
Our relationship with Christ should change the
character of our speech. Before Christ, we spoke however we wanted to speak, in
whatever way would advance our own interests and our own ideas. If lying accomplished
our goals, we lied. If unwholesome speech made us feel powerful, that’s how we
spoke. Our relationship with Christ gives us a new outlook on how we speak. Our
speech takes into consideration our love and concern for those to whom we speak.
So, we don’t lie because lies hurt others and we care too much to hurt them. We
no longer speak in unwholesome ways, but now all of our speech reflects our
desire to help the people around us.
Our relationship with Christ should change our
attitudes. Bitterness, rage, anger used to characterize our attitudes toward life
and toward other people. Now, kindness, compassion, and forgiveness are the
marks of our attitudes, even as they mark the character of Christ.
Our relationship with Christ should change our
actions, too. Stealing and other sinful actions were common place in our lives
before Christ. Those actions were focused on getting what we wanted and meeting
our needs. A whole new way of looking at how we act has come over us in Christ.
We’re not as concerned about our own needs, but now the concern that dominates
our actions is our concern for what others need.
Of course, those are the ideals and none of us
has made it to those ideals yet. We still stumble in our speech, our attitudes
and our actions. But those remain the goals of our lives and the direction in
which Christ is taking us.
His, by Grace,
Steve
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