“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a
king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed
him ten thousand talents was brought to him.
Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and
his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. The servant fell on his knees before
him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged,
‘and I will pay back everything.’ The
servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. But when that servant went out, he found one
of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged
him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown
into prison until he could pay the debt.
When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly
distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened. Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled
all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow
servant just as I had on you?’ In anger
his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay
back all he owed. This is how my
heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from
your heart.” (Matthew 18:23-35)
Our forgiveness of others flows out of the
realization of how much God has forgiven us.
At least, it should. But
grudge-holding has grown to epidemic proportions, even among those who have
been forgiven by God.
We humans seem to enjoy holding on to past
hurts. Perhaps it assuages our own
guilt. To continue to hold someone else
responsible for his sins may make our own sins seem less horrible. I don’t know all the reasons we hold on to
grudges, but I know it’s true of me and true of many others with whom I have
contact.
Today, consider how great your debt of sin
was toward God. Consider how great His
gift to you of forgiveness has been.
Then, turn to those around you, and forgive them!
His, by Grace,
Steve